An unplanned pregnancy can bring a wave of emotions, especially when deciding whether to share the news with your partner. You may be wondering if you’re legally required to tell them about your pregnancy or your decision to seek an abortion.
The truth is, the choice is yours. You are not obligated to inform your partner, and your decision about your pregnancy is entirely personal.
At Ohana Health, we’re here to walk alongside you. We offer no-cost, confidential pregnancy services, including pregnancy testing and ultrasounds, to help you explore your options with clarity and support.
Reasons You May Hesitate to Share With Your Partner
There are many reasons why you may feel uncomfortable talking to your partner about your pregnancy decision, and your feelings are valid.
One of the most serious concerns is safety. If you fear your partner may react with anger, manipulation, or violence, it’s important to protect yourself. Your safety matters, and there are resources available to help. If you are in danger, reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-7233 or call 911 for immediate help.
Even if safety is not a concern, you may worry that telling your partner will add to your stress or pressure you into making a decision you’re unsure about. It’s okay to take time to process your emotions and gather the support you need before having this conversation—if you choose to have it at all.
Why You Might Consider Telling Your Partner
While the decision is yours alone, there can be benefits to having an open conversation, especially if you have a healthy and supportive relationship.
Your partner may initially feel shocked or uncertain, but sharing this news could allow both of you to process and explore options together. If your partner is supportive, you may find reassurance in knowing you’re not facing this decision alone.
It can also be helpful to consider how you would feel if the roles were reversed—would you want to be included in the decision? Sometimes, honest communication can strengthen a relationship, even in difficult situations.
No-Cost Pregnancy Services and Support
No matter what you decide, you don’t have to go through this alone. At Ohana Health, we provide no-cost, confidential pregnancy services, including pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, and consultations to help you navigate your options.
We can provide information on abortion procedures, potential risks, and alternative options so you can make an informed decision about your future.
Schedule a confidential appointment today. Our compassionate team is here to support you.
Ohana Health does not provide or refer for abortions.